Hi there. I am currently active duty in the Navy. I was sea duty then was transfered to shore duty on limdu orders, now i have been put on a med board.
My background:
Im currenlty in the beginning process of my medical board. I was recommended for a medical board with "Major Depression" and "Anxiety" . Unfortunatley, I experienced a misscarriage Feb 2019. My misscarriage triggered me to go into a depressive state. I was no longer able to focus, i was having mood swings, i was having troubles concentrating at work and i started having sleep issues. I became reclusive, i no longer had intrest in activities i once loved. I started having relationship problems with my husband to the point where we almost seperated. i felt so alone and i just wanted to sleep and not wake up.
I started going to fleet and family prior to my limdu orders. I went to them for 4 months until i finally had a severe mental break down and i scheduled an appointment with the mental health clinic. I have been seeing my pyschologist there for almost 5 months now. Since then i have been changing medications trying to find the right dosage. I have gone through 3 different prescriptions along with different dosages. The side effects included mood swings, headaches, fatique, dizziness, low self esteem and weight gain... i told my pyschologists that although i was not suicidal i had horrible thoughts that i didnt know where they were coming from. i am no longer the person i was and i hate it.
So here i am now. begining my med board and im not gonna lie, im freaking out about it.
So heres the deal, my contract is over in October 2020. Will this process keep me in pasted that? My pyschologist told me that since i am doing a med board i could be POSSIBLY out as early as April 2020. Is that relastic?
i meet with the PEBLO tomorrow and my JAG lawyer later this week. Can i actualy trust these people? I spoke with my JAG once, he insisted that i go thru the VA and make the claims and due this process the "Right" way versus taking the quick and easy route. Was this a mistake that i agreed with him?
As far as the VA goes, are they checking all my issues? I have been seen for podiatry for a heel and ankle injury that i obtained while in the navy. should i tell the va to look at that as well? I have medical documentation for these too.
Most importanly. How will this effect me after i get out? Will i still be able to get a normal job ? Will i still be able to have all my benefits ie: VA loan?
Not gonna lie, i feel horrible im going out this way. i didnt plan for any of this. and i truly feel like a failure and i really honeslty tried to act ok. i really did put a smile on my face and try to act ok... but im miserable.
Any help or advice will be greatly appriecated.
My background:
Im currenlty in the beginning process of my medical board. I was recommended for a medical board with "Major Depression" and "Anxiety" . Unfortunatley, I experienced a misscarriage Feb 2019. My misscarriage triggered me to go into a depressive state. I was no longer able to focus, i was having mood swings, i was having troubles concentrating at work and i started having sleep issues. I became reclusive, i no longer had intrest in activities i once loved. I started having relationship problems with my husband to the point where we almost seperated. i felt so alone and i just wanted to sleep and not wake up.
I started going to fleet and family prior to my limdu orders. I went to them for 4 months until i finally had a severe mental break down and i scheduled an appointment with the mental health clinic. I have been seeing my pyschologist there for almost 5 months now. Since then i have been changing medications trying to find the right dosage. I have gone through 3 different prescriptions along with different dosages. The side effects included mood swings, headaches, fatique, dizziness, low self esteem and weight gain... i told my pyschologists that although i was not suicidal i had horrible thoughts that i didnt know where they were coming from. i am no longer the person i was and i hate it.
So here i am now. begining my med board and im not gonna lie, im freaking out about it.
So heres the deal, my contract is over in October 2020. Will this process keep me in pasted that? My pyschologist told me that since i am doing a med board i could be POSSIBLY out as early as April 2020. Is that relastic?
i meet with the PEBLO tomorrow and my JAG lawyer later this week. Can i actualy trust these people? I spoke with my JAG once, he insisted that i go thru the VA and make the claims and due this process the "Right" way versus taking the quick and easy route. Was this a mistake that i agreed with him?
As far as the VA goes, are they checking all my issues? I have been seen for podiatry for a heel and ankle injury that i obtained while in the navy. should i tell the va to look at that as well? I have medical documentation for these too.
Most importanly. How will this effect me after i get out? Will i still be able to get a normal job ? Will i still be able to have all my benefits ie: VA loan?
Not gonna lie, i feel horrible im going out this way. i didnt plan for any of this. and i truly feel like a failure and i really honeslty tried to act ok. i really did put a smile on my face and try to act ok... but im miserable.
Any help or advice will be greatly appriecated.