Hello, soon-to-be Navy retiree here, added to the PRDL at that. The Command Career Counselor (CCC) told me yesterday that the command "wouldn't entertain procuring a flag for a medical retirement" and that I don't qualify for any LOAs. I had come to her with the question of where I could get a flag for my retirement ceremony, albeit an informal one and not a big, official command-sponsored ceremony. I really just wanted to know if I could request one through the command or if I would have to get one on my own. She also liked to expound upon how she had just come from a limdu command, how she knows the instructions well, and how she's processed many a separation package of varying types. According to PERS, by definition I am going to be a retiree by way of disability retirement. She was snarky, sarcastic, and short of being outright rude. Put it this way, if NC1 had talked the same way to an officer she would have been UCMJ'd super fast. What can I do (that doesn't jeopardize my final rating and type of discharge lol)?