So I seem to be in one horrible mess, and I need as much help as I can get...
In December, 2010 I was told an MEB would be started for being diagnosed with vasovagal syncope (fainting). My first PCM told me that my MEB would be submitted by January, 2011. I'm not sure if she ever started the paperwork, but I was put on a profile and mobility restrictions, and my profile stated an MEB was being started. After this I was then referred to see a neurologist which then held up that initial MEB. Roughly 3 more times I was told an MEB was going to be started, and then after finding out she was going to be moving to a different clinic, she told me it was going to be completed before she left. That didn't happen. February 2012 I met my new PCM and asked him the status of my MEB. He told me he had no idea of any MEB and that none had been started, and that he didn't think I needed one. I proceeded to tell him that it's a chronic condition and I was told, per AFI, that it needed to be med boarded. He had me go to the MEB office to double check. I went, and they said they had no files on me. Then in March I got phone calls saying that I had tons of paperwork floating around for an MEB and that it needed to be started. I explained that I'm on a trial for medication until August and they said they would wait until that was over to initiate.
Well, after doing a lot of thinking and seeking a lot of counseling, I've decided to voluntarily separate the AF. The problem... I was told that AFPC may reject the package because an MEB has been initiated... even though it hasn't really...
To be completely honest, I am freaking out quite a bit. I can't fathom being in medical limbo for another year. I really can't. The reasons for my voluntary separation are multiple traumatic events that have happened, and how I'm left now mentally and emotionally, I would hope that would trump the MEB, but of course... that would be too simple.
Has anyone been put in a similar situation, and does anyone have any advice or input for what I can/should do? Since it's not actually initiated, can I have them remove the code? Is there some "quick" version of an MEB (I've heard of MEBs being initiated while people are out-processing)?
Thank you so much for your time and help. (Sorry for so much text, this is the short version. Haha)
In December, 2010 I was told an MEB would be started for being diagnosed with vasovagal syncope (fainting). My first PCM told me that my MEB would be submitted by January, 2011. I'm not sure if she ever started the paperwork, but I was put on a profile and mobility restrictions, and my profile stated an MEB was being started. After this I was then referred to see a neurologist which then held up that initial MEB. Roughly 3 more times I was told an MEB was going to be started, and then after finding out she was going to be moving to a different clinic, she told me it was going to be completed before she left. That didn't happen. February 2012 I met my new PCM and asked him the status of my MEB. He told me he had no idea of any MEB and that none had been started, and that he didn't think I needed one. I proceeded to tell him that it's a chronic condition and I was told, per AFI, that it needed to be med boarded. He had me go to the MEB office to double check. I went, and they said they had no files on me. Then in March I got phone calls saying that I had tons of paperwork floating around for an MEB and that it needed to be started. I explained that I'm on a trial for medication until August and they said they would wait until that was over to initiate.
Well, after doing a lot of thinking and seeking a lot of counseling, I've decided to voluntarily separate the AF. The problem... I was told that AFPC may reject the package because an MEB has been initiated... even though it hasn't really...
To be completely honest, I am freaking out quite a bit. I can't fathom being in medical limbo for another year. I really can't. The reasons for my voluntary separation are multiple traumatic events that have happened, and how I'm left now mentally and emotionally, I would hope that would trump the MEB, but of course... that would be too simple.
Has anyone been put in a similar situation, and does anyone have any advice or input for what I can/should do? Since it's not actually initiated, can I have them remove the code? Is there some "quick" version of an MEB (I've heard of MEBs being initiated while people are out-processing)?
Thank you so much for your time and help. (Sorry for so much text, this is the short version. Haha)