I am a former Army nurse who was medically retired due to Major Depressive Disorder and Anxiety Disorder NOS. The lead-up to my separation was an embarrassing and heart-breaking affair. I had spent five years earning my commission through ROTC and was planning to make a career as an officer. I was only three months away from attending the OB-GYN nursing course at Darnell when I had a panic attack that ultimately led to my separation.
During the interim between my panic attack and my separation I was removed from inpatient care and essentially made to do pointless busy work. I was eventually re-assigned to a clinic, but even that was just a holding pen I was placed in so my superiors wouldn't have to deal me. My commanding officer confidently assured me that this wouldn't hurt my chances of making CPT while simultaneously omitting that I had been given a profile which barred me from deployment or handling weapons. She repeatedly assured me that I was a valued officer while simultaneously telling my CDE-assigned psychologist that I was essentially an emotionally-volatile nut who was a detriment to the hospital's mission. When I confronted her about the glaring inaccuracies in my medical record she essentially shrugged her shoulders and told me she thought I would be great in the civilian world.
I wasn't even given the privilege of a send-off. I was told to plan my own going-away party which none of my commanding officers or NCOs attended.
I can't get rid of the anger and shame I still feel about everything that happened. I don't feel worthy of the title veteran and I don't talk about being in the Army. When people ask me about my previous job I just tell them I worked in an Army facility. I don't show anyone my military ID, I don't inquire about military discounts, and I plan to stay home on Veteran's Day. I hate going to the VA and being among veterans who put themselves in danger while I was forced to sit in a hospital doing pointless busy work. My sister is a CPT who is airborne/air assault qualified with four deployments under her belt, and I'm tired of hearing my parents talk about all her achievements. I never attended any schools or courses.
I want to believe that I am a veteran, that I am worthy of being called a soldier, but truthfully I don't feel like anything I did was important or worthwhile. I don't feel like I have anything to be proud of.
During the interim between my panic attack and my separation I was removed from inpatient care and essentially made to do pointless busy work. I was eventually re-assigned to a clinic, but even that was just a holding pen I was placed in so my superiors wouldn't have to deal me. My commanding officer confidently assured me that this wouldn't hurt my chances of making CPT while simultaneously omitting that I had been given a profile which barred me from deployment or handling weapons. She repeatedly assured me that I was a valued officer while simultaneously telling my CDE-assigned psychologist that I was essentially an emotionally-volatile nut who was a detriment to the hospital's mission. When I confronted her about the glaring inaccuracies in my medical record she essentially shrugged her shoulders and told me she thought I would be great in the civilian world.
I wasn't even given the privilege of a send-off. I was told to plan my own going-away party which none of my commanding officers or NCOs attended.
I can't get rid of the anger and shame I still feel about everything that happened. I don't feel worthy of the title veteran and I don't talk about being in the Army. When people ask me about my previous job I just tell them I worked in an Army facility. I don't show anyone my military ID, I don't inquire about military discounts, and I plan to stay home on Veteran's Day. I hate going to the VA and being among veterans who put themselves in danger while I was forced to sit in a hospital doing pointless busy work. My sister is a CPT who is airborne/air assault qualified with four deployments under her belt, and I'm tired of hearing my parents talk about all her achievements. I never attended any schools or courses.
I want to believe that I am a veteran, that I am worthy of being called a soldier, but truthfully I don't feel like anything I did was important or worthwhile. I don't feel like I have anything to be proud of.