Wow. My hat is off to you - that's an amazing amount of bs you had to crawl through to get your care. I'm glad to see that you were able to make it happen. At this point I don't think a program like you went through is for me - Plus my current MH provider would never sign off on it - he's stuck on "Adjustment Disorder/Anxiety Disorder NOS" and ignoring what my civilian provider (that I paid to see out of my own pocket) had to say on the subject. I'm probably going to have some followup visits with the Civilian provider and help build my case to appeal the NARSUM when it's written if the base MH folks don't list it as an issue like they are currently threatening.
My thought is that you can voluntarily go to th VA - take your MH records with you (whatever you have & RX's), - or call hem - and make an appt. with the VA people. No one can stop you from doing this as you are within 180 days of discharge.
I was years away from discharge - plus I had to get advance approval for my VA care from the Army as I was still on their payroll. You may not have to fight like I had to. All you can do is try to at least get a VA appt for a diagnosis - the treatment can always come later as it takes time to get a slot from the VA for it ayway.
The VA has several different types of treatment programs for PTSD and the treatment approach is different for each type. They have small groups for males only, females only, mixed, etc. Some are in-patient, some are once-a-week out-patient, some are designed where you talk about the triggering events, some are where you don't talk about the triggering events, etc. You and your VA MH care provider discuss these options for treatment after diagnosis is given and what would work best for your situation.
Having already had a VA diagnosis in my VA records was a real plus for me - though I didn't know it at the time I went in for help. I just knew I needed help! But later, when I went through the IDES process, my having sought diagnosis and treatment at the VA helped the VA to properly rate me as they didn't have to rely on an Army mental health "mis-diagnosis". I had already gone through the VA "Gold Standard" PTSD assessment, had a VA diagnosis for PTSD (eventually they added MDD and GAD, too), and had completed a VA weekly, out-patient PTSD treatment program for females only using the CPT treatment modality (Cognitive Processing Therapy). I found it to be somewhat effective and better than nothing - which was far better than what the Army was offering (which was NOTHING!).
So I would highly recommend you at least contact the VA and get a diagnosis from them now. It helps YOU and your IDES case. Plus, it's free - no cost to the Army, either.
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