
Hi Jason,
My name is Elizabeth and I had some questions about our situation that we have right now. My husband in a E6 Marine , and being a Marine for almost 10 years. All this situation started about two weeks ago. My husband got assigned to Recruiting duty here in Ohio. We were a little excited but concern too. He did great in school finished top of his class with a average of 97%. So that kept us hope that this could be OK for us. Well he got assigned to a little town called Hillsboro to report on July 29, we got here and is was a totally culture shock, not only we are the second Hispanic family living in this town but everything else is so new to us, but we adjust it and try to think it will go fast. Well about two weeks ago my husband had a severe anxiety attack (never had one before) and we had to take him to the hospital because he could stop shaking and controlling his emotions. After that he was recommend to see a counselor. He was send to the VA in Chillicothe, were he was evaluated and recommended that he stay there for two weeks (Only stay about 9 nine and was dischard). He was evaluated by three different professional in which they recommend to his command to send him back to the fleet marines. That recruiting duty is not for him, he was diagnoses with PDS , anxiety and social disorder in which it could be improve but over time , with counseling. Well his command didn't take it well, specially his CO. He pretty much said in the phone conference that they had with the doctors. That my husband was faking it and that allot of marines fake distress to try to get out of duty, and that if he is having those problem he should not be fit to return to his old duty and be dischard. The doctor explain him the outcome , the recommendation they are providing but at the end is up to them. They receive a formal report, as well as us. He return from the Hospital Yesterday, He is right now on anxiety pills until his visit with the counselor next Thursday. Today he was call by his superior , telling him to return to the office because he will be doing some admins work until his order to a medical board in West Virginia are done. My concern and of course his are How long would this board be? Would he get a punishment for this situation? How can this MB hurt him? And how should we handle this situation? Can we fight this for him to return to his duty? Would they have to move us from where we are, during this Medical board? SHould we get legal advice? What can I do to help him through this?
I am sorry , I am they are many questions but we are really concern. Many of our other military friends tell us not to trust any of his command because they are going to try to screw him ( sorry for the language) because of what he has done. And the only thing , I can see is the military has being the life of my husband and he is so proud of that. His career as a military never being in trouble and always accomplish his mission. And i know he is worry, not only because of his career but because of the safety and security of his family. I will really appreciated if you can provide us with some advice of what he can do. Our email is
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thank you very much
Elizabeth Padilla